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The soccer publication is oddly tedious, yet strangely captivating. Its title causes confusion. The Dear England title already is used by a hit theatrical production, an forthcoming TV show, and a open letter penned by Gareth Southgate in 2021.

This version of Dear England isn’t formally connected to those. It stands as an anomaly in the expanding Dear England universe, a book about management: a typically dull elite football manager subject that the author follows relentlessly, employing the words “leader”, “guiding” or “leadership” no fewer than 500 times across its 336-page length.

Themes Raised

“What are leaders? What do leaders do? What insights do leaders have?” he asks at the outset, establishing his stall, but choosing not to address “How are leaders?”, topics presumably set aside for a second book.

Otherwise, this publication has a notable absence at its core. It’s an attempt in indirectly hostile self-defense, in almost-but-not-quite expressing the underlying truth, jumping skillfully from unresolved issue to raw emotion across a collection of graphs, business clichés and discussions about 16th-century statesmen.

Reading Experience

Going through the book is like overhearing your parents having a polite but intensely emotional debate in the next room while you’re attempting to pay attention on a professional workshop named “112 Reasons Why Naturally I Had the Last Laugh”. But it is also difficult to stop reading, as the author keeps drifting near to something you actually want to learn about, before abruptly changing tack.

Insights

There are always news headlines in books of this nature, explained by the intense fascination with England managerdom. The most striking instances encompass: the manager resolved he was definitely going to quit as England manager after spectators threw containers at him at the Euros; he almost chose to abandoning the game at half-time against the Bulgarian team in 2019 after his squad members were targeted with slurs; he introduced the approach of set-piece coaches and the entire league in the top division is now following his lead; he has now lost his enthusiasm for the sport, a startling revelation briefly included in a single paragraph at the conclusion.

Guiding England through a era of anger, aspiration, turmoil and pandemic restrictions was a brutal experience. The wounds are obviously still fresh.

Predictable Elements

Throughout much of the book, the narrative is saturated with an robotic word-sludge of generic management talk. Advanced copies of this book were provided with journalists under secrecy pacts prior to launch, probably out of concern someone might leak that “tough talks can, by their nature, be challenging”, that you should always consider the consequences, that guidance happens where change intersects with understanding.

Genuine Feeling

Readers will find nevertheless real emotion here. Leading England through a period of fury, optimism, upheaval and confinement was a harsh ordeal. The scars are evidently still fresh, even if expressed in a jargon-laden reimagining of the standard leader story: how my decisions were correct about everything from the start.

Notable Cases

The book’s initial chapter, disguised as gripping accounts of the deciding game of the European Championship, is entirely focused on how good the manager in fact was at substitutes (the primary Southgate gripe being he wasn’t effective at substitutes). Later, he delves into extensive analysis about how he handled the deciding game of 2021 flawlessly – specifically the failed spot-kick decider – because he complied with a set protocol, which implies that introducing youthful talents very late to take the crucial attempt of their existence was reasonable and correct.

That approach was validated by a victorious tiebreaker against Switzerland in a subsequent competition after a game where England spent the full duration looking as if they were striving to wear a pullover the backwards. “Our dominance in that penalty decider was truly exciting,” the author notes, while equating the display to elite military units eliminating a high-profile target. Oh Gareth.

Missed Opportunities

On the occasions we come near to a revelation, the manager withdraws from naming names or giving us the details. We learn there were problematic England squad members who required more attention, maybe because they were indulged at the start of their time in football. But as you anticipate hopefully, the author is quickly diverting into something named a leadership concept, which states that rather than a grouping of qualities or values, culture is in fact an element that is formed by, alas, please, no more.

Strengths

Included in the stronger bits are when Southgate explores about the gradual nature of developing resilience in youth, or how he sought to describe what it means to be English more clearly and more constructively than any public personality in the spotlight. The standout section, there is a genuinely compelling narrative of that harrowing match in Sofia where England’s black players were targeted with hatred (and afterwards supported forcefully by their leader).

Genuine Ending

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